Someone Please Help Me Out.

Hello, Im new to the forums, but I just bought a 2004 Ford Explorer XLT its the 4x4 model not the AWD. I wanna make this thing look nice, which to me means Bigger Tires, Nicer Rims (which goes along with tires i guess.) but also a lift kit, a bull bar, and a light rack across the top. What i'm asking is what do you guys suggest as far as tire size, light rack, Bull bar, and lift kit goes, without making it look dumb. and also if you could give me a ball park estimate of what it will cost as well as some cheap, reliable places online to buy these accesories. Thank you for your time and i look forward to seeing your responses    

Need to know what size tires it has now to make suggestion. Then keep the lift as low as possible the explorers do not look good really tall. all of these add ons could end up costing 5,000 or more depending on how good of a scrounger you are. Finally go ask your local tire and parts guys if they know anybody that has stuff you need for sale, usually these guys are in the same hobby. good luck